Stress over wedding preparation

Really stress over the wedding preparation. Need to confirm guest list; print invitation cards. Plan out actual day schedule and get a coordinator to ensure everything is in order. Dont know who can help. Compile the list of hongbaos which we need to give. When date is nearing, need to get ready the cash. Need to list down duties of the helpers, get people to be Ushers etc. Gosh, getting married is tiring. If I were to choose again, I don’t want to go thru the customary wedding…