Whether to have Photography and videography on my actual wedding day. Frustrated!

I’m now in a dilemma. Whether to have Photography and videography on my actual wedding day. My bridal studio charges $1.4K for both. Susan’s uncle charges $1.6K. Some people said will regret if we don’t take down the special moments. Some people said that no need to waste such money. Who should I listen to??? I really very tired of preparing to get married. I hate the process now. It is such a hassle. Different people are saying differently, I really duno who should I listen to. And I cant make up my mind myself. OMG!!!!!!!! Arghhhhhh. Who can help me???????? So frustrating..............