Housework is really a chore

Today wake up at 11am. After waking up, there're so many things to do.

Hang out the clothes, mop the floor, burn incense, water the plants then cook breakfast cum lunch for both of us. Had been forgetting to water for 2 days. Really stress, very scare to forget to do something. Every morning is really rush. Has to make breakfast for both of them then get prepare to go work.

I cooked Chicken Marconi and luckily it doesn't taste that bad. Dear washed the dishes cos i complain that they didn't help to do anything. Everything leave to me. I am not a maid. Everyone has to do their part. I am really amazed that my mother in law had been doing all these for her two children. I am not going to let my kids do nothing, at least must know how to keep their own room. Later need to wash up Dear's shirts and iron clothes. It seems like so many things to do. I can't imagine myself doing all these every day. Unless i no need to work otherwise i do not have the time at all.

Dear's sis didn't help to do anything at all. She leave her bed unmake, floor unmopped. I cannot imagine, see how long can she stand for herself. For god's sake. She only know how to enjoy herself, eat then sleep. Let see how long can this last.

Sigh, still got 2 more weeks plus to go. Dear might be gg Thai again during early Feb. That will left his sis and i at home alone. Damn sian.

Sick of this lifestyle

Really very sian. Now stuck at home. Everytime when the sis want to use car, we have to come back early and let her use. Then everytime, we use car, we have to fetch mum here and there and pick up dad. All our time is not delicated for ourselves. It is always for others. When she use the car, she no need to fetch anyone, can go as long as she like, no need to rush home. This is unfair. I really hate it. We merely go out for 3 hrs only and we are being recalled back. I have not shop for my own things. This lifestyle is going to stuck with me forever.

I really hope that we can have the ability to have our own car. Hope we can have higher pay so that we can buy a car. I rather have our own and ask her to get one herself. I will not lend my car to her. I dread the feeling of being recalled back like that.

A long and busy weekend

My long weekend is gg to end soon. Time passed so fast.

How i spend it?

1st Jan 2009
On our anniversary, 1st Jan we woke up quite late, at 11 plus. Finally had a chance to sleep late. We didnt plan to go out cos everywhere is having new year lunch and dinner, pretty expensive. After waking up, his mum want to go out and buy things so we went out with her to have lunch. After lunch, she said she want to buy pineapples. At first say AMK, we went there and no more pineapples so we went Kallang Bahru. Then after that, she want to go TPY to buy flour and butter.

After buying all her things, we spent our day at home to spring clean our room. We bought a few containers from Daiso and we packed our things inside, now it looks neater. I brought out all the clothes in the wardrobes and re-fold them. Some clothes which i cant wear, i planned to give to our cleaner in my office. Dear's ones will give to Salvation. He has alot too. Our wardrobe is bursting.

2nd Jan 2009
Today is a day without parent and anyone else. We planned to spend the day on our own. We went out at about noon. We went Vivocity. Basically we wanted to buy our new year clothes. I bought a Fox skirt. Dear bought a few T shirts. I wanted to get a new pair of shoes but nothing catches my eyes. Everywhere on sales but the clothes are not of my liking. After that, we went Suntec Sizzler to have dinner.

3rd Jan 2009
My best friend from primary school, Marie's wedding lunch. I thought it will be weird sitting with a few friends whom we never contact for 10 years but it turned out to be ok. We had fun together. There were alot of things to catch up. The lunch end at about 4 and we took a couple of pictures with the groom and brides :) After which, Celestine and Evon accompany me to wait for Dear to come. I love to catch up with them, updates one another. I will organise another coffee session again but this time round Marie cant joined us :(. She will follow her husband to Wales. We will missed her laughter. Hope she can come back soon. I wished her all the best and have a happy marriage.

4th Jan 2009
Today as usual, Dear had to send his dad to work and mum to market. I am blogging at home. We are always not free until noon. Basically our time is not our time. Our time have to cater for alot of people. Later need to go Jac's house then after need to meet Marie's sis to get back my memory card. Tonight dont know need to send his parent to Qigong. His sis said she's using the car for the whole day, hope we are excuse today. At least we can rest at home to get re-energise for work tomorrow.